Episode 044: How Available Are You?
If there’s a part of you that feels unavailable for connection, or if you’re really not sure what it means to even BE available - this one’s for you.
My transmission today is all about exploring this availability for connection and keeping it real with yourself about where you may be desiring more of it in your life. I’m sharing a little about my own resistance to connection, the deeper thing inside of me that was keeping me separated from it, and some of the practices & tools I used to lean into greater connection in my life (and how you can too).
I dive into:
Exploring your availability (or unavailability) for connection
Some of the biggest ways I externalized my fear of connection in my younger years
Connection v. Separation - keeping it real about where you’re at & what you desire
Exploring connection for all my savers/rescuers/martyrs out there (and some shifts you can make around availability)
What might be happening if you keep attracting people who are unavailable
Human Design and how I move through the flow between my hermit & opportunist
Determining your internal walls so you can feel into where you want more connection & community (and some practical tools to do it)
And more
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